I am grateful for the heartbreak last December 24, 2019 because it taught me to take relationship one step at a time. It also taught me to be more conscious towards my partner, his personality, likes/dislikes, and more.

I am grateful for the heartbreak because it made me realize that love is not just about happy endings, sweet beginnings; that too much love is bad in a relationship.

I am grateful for the heartbreak because through that experience i found amazing people at work who are unselfishly comforting. These are the women who are constantly listening to me whenever i’m troubled. They’ve always been there since day 1.

I am grateful because i have a boyfriend who loves me. Who is always there and reassures me that everything is going to be ok. To you my love, Thank you.

As someone who is hung up from a terrible relationship and diving to a new one, it is my sole responsibility to be a better partner to my current one. I must stop comparing him from my previous. It is not fair for him. I trust that he is a good and honest person. I love him and I know that he loves me too without any inch of doubt. Like what I have been doing, I should allow him to be where he wants to be, who he wants to be with, and when he wants to go.

Think positive. It’s hard i know but there is no other way.

Do not allow your self to drown in sadness, anxiety, and fear.

You are an amazing person and a lot of people care for you, especially your boyfriend.

You are not alone in this battle. You can always turn to your friends for help.

This is just a phase and shall pass. Just hold on. You will get through it. You are stronger than your weakness.

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